Category: Wellness

  • Stress and Depression: Can Dreams Help Relieve the Suffering?

    Stress and Depression: Can Dreams Help Relieve the Suffering?

    The weight that stress and depression has the potential to put on you at times can be overwhelming.  Though there are ways to manage the symptoms, sometimes it feels like there is no other option other than to accept what you’re feeling and suffer from it.  No one should have to feel like this though.  Stress and depression can negatively affect your life.  With new research being contemplated on a regular basis at a higher rate than ever before, treatments are being revealed to provide relief.  These treatments might be something you do regularly and just aren’t quite yet aware they are benefiting you!  The idea that dreams can alleviate stress and depression has been proposed recently, as studies report people feeling less distressed not just from sleep itself but from the actual dream, having remembered it.

    Stress and Depression Relief

    When it comes to stress and depression, dreams may not typically be your first guess for alleviation.  Rosalind Cartwright, PhD, has went as far to describe the benefits of dreams as stating, “It’s almost like having an internal therapist, because you associate [through dreams] to previous similar feelings, and you work through the emotion related to it so that it is reduced by morning.”  With this concept, dreams share a person’s subconscious thoughts and allow them an opportunity to figure out ways to deal with pressing issues they tackle in their waking life.  In this sense, dreams can be compared to the new method of upcoming and noticeably beneficial virtual reality therapy.  This is because dreams, like the virtual reality therapy, provides a similar but alternative state to reality where the sufferer can face their feelings in a setting that lets them misbehave if they must and “live” an almost rough draft or rehearsal of a situation without the actual consequences that would occur in reality of their waking life.

    Rosalind Cartwright’s View on Dreams

    With studies dating back to 2003, acclaimed researcher Cartwright had proved her hypothesis that a person’s dreams could indeed result in a better mindset for them upon awakening.  She viewed 31 participants that were suffering from major depression.  The people that had started their dreaming before others also had their dreams occur for a greater amount of time.  In addition to lengthier dreams, these people could remember what happened during their dreams and carried an overall content mindset as opposed to the other dreamers who were claimed to have “felt even worse in the morning.”  This lead to a well backed-up conclusion of the study that showed how dreams can not only affect a person’s mood, but more specifically can relieve feelings of stress and depression.  Cartwright took her inception of dreams and their benefits further in time, as demonstrated in her publishing “Concerns “article is specifically were she states her stance on dreaming being a probable factor for regulation of mood.  She goes into further detail on her study’s findings that show how the participants with longer length dreams also proved that their dreams were denser.  With this, their dreams involved them being accompanied by a greater number of people and being in several different settings.  Cartwright extrapolated as to why by stating, “This heightened dream complexity was characteristic… they seemed to be putting things together in new ways, ‘changing their minds’ during sleep.”  This is where she inferred that these participants’ dreams acted similar to how a therapy session would work because underlying emotions are being addressed through situations.  She did go on to add that, “Those who failed to remit without treatment had short rather stark dreams or no recall at all. These are the depressed that require some treatment intervention, antidepressant medication, psychotherapy, or a therapy directed to dream change.”  This is important to take to heart because, although dreams may alleviate stress and depression, some mental states have a severity that needs professional attention. 

    Dreams are shown to ease the depressed and anxiety ridden minds of plagued individuals.  Though the state of the subconscious mind when dreaming is still being studied and not entirely understood, it is a widely intrigued topic and expected to provide beneficial information pertaining to possible health benefits after more scientific studies are conducted.  Nevertheless, an adequate amount of sleep guarantees proper replenishment of the body and restoration of the mind to prepare for the next day, which can be an important factor when it comes to maintaining relief from daily stress and anxiety.

  • What Is Freedom from Addiction?

    What is freedom? The word can quite simply be associated with being lifted from constraint. Yearning to recover, many addicts and alcoholics that are active in their addiction may long for this liberation, but they contemplate what this new freedom would look or feel like.

    Addicts and alcoholics would love to visualize this clear-cut concrete image of a substance-free life, but it just does not seem like a viable option. Upon beginning the recovery process, they may start to operate differently and become open to the idea that a new way of life is in fact plausible. The individual in recovery may begin to see that the freedom exists beyond just abstaining from the alcohol and drugs. They may want freedom from other areas of life to which they were not aware were directing their thinking on how they orchestrated their own life.

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    Understanding 12 Stepwork: 4th Step Inventory Spreadsheet

    It’s safe to assume nobody wants to be dredging up the past, but recovering from addiction requires you as an alcoholic and/or addict to take a serious look at your past when embarking on your journey in sobriety. When working on the 4th step inventory in particular, it can be overbearing when you are overridden with memories you haven’t recalled for some time. Mentally revisiting these occasions can be enervating, so it’s crucial to remember that it’s all part of the process. Looking back at your life isn’t supposed to be torturous but rather get you in a better…

  • Exercise as a Spiritual Concept

    For me, early recovery involved detox, followed by “okay, now how do I stay quit without going crazy?” My problem was staying quit, and I believed that the solution was entirely “spiritual.” I was convinced that I needed spiritual guidance, psychological therapy, or possibly group support to overcome this diseased thinking of mine. Any mention of a physical component (like a suggestion of regular exercise) was met with the usual nodding of the head.

    There was a clear separation here. My problem was mental and spiritual. I believed that, following detox, my physical body had nothing to do with recovery. At the very least, I regarded physical issues such as health, diet, and exercise to be distant, unimportant issues. They were not critical to maintaining recovery in my opinion.

    As I have stayed clean in recovery, my opinion about this has slowly changed. Call it an awakening of all things physical–I now realize that my regular jogging routine probably has as much to do with how “happy” I consider myself to be as my “emotional wellbeing” or my “spiritual centeredness.” Or rather, I have come to realize that this exercise, this physical dimension – adds a whole lot more to my “spiritual centeredness and emotional wellbeing” than I used to give credit for. Regular vigorous exercise is spiritual, in addition to the regular health benefits received by it.

    To some extent, we can argue over words a bit here if we want to. We could say that the physical component is just as important as any spiritual or emotional component might be. Or, we could say that our physical self is a part of our spiritual being. Either way, my revelation is that I used to minimize the physical component when it came to recovery – and now I am very much aware of what a difference it has made in the long run.

  • As A Parent In Recovery, How Do I Explain My Addiction To My Children?

    As A Parent In Recovery, How Do I Explain My Addiction To My Children?

    Explaining your drug addiction to your children may be something you find yourself procrastinating.  It is important to realize that this is a matter both worthy and necessary to address.  If you are debating how to tackle such a topic, communicating with your kids about the disease you have will clear up any misinformation.  You should focus on how talking about difficulties helps the outcome and brings a greater bond in the relationships of all people involved.

    How Do I Talk To My Kids?

    Something that may be keeping you from having a talk with your kids about what is going on with you in your recovery could be the guilt you may be experiencing.  You may feel like you have failed as a parent, even though the truth is that you have not.  Just by you being in recovery and working to better yourself, you are an inspiration.  The willingness for change is never a letdown.  Your kids will notice your perseverance and desire to grow, giving them the good model for striving towards healthy goals. If you ever feel like you have disappointed your family, just take a deep breath and remind yourself that addiction is a disease.  Your disease wants you to suffer, be miserable, and wallow in self-pity.  Focus on your recovery and further developing your relationship with your children. Keep trying your best and do not give up.

    You should also consider that if you are not discussing your recovery process even vaguely with your kids, then they might make their own assumptions about what is going on.  This will drive a wedge between your relationship with them and even increase their chances of having issues later in their life based on false interpreting of what they thought was going on in their childhood with you.  Try to answer the questions that your kids have the right to know without getting too detailed with the residuals.

    It can be especially tough to explain what is going on to your children when you are in the process of your recovery if they are young.  If this is the case, the details can get spared according to what they know.  The best method when having the discussion would be to relate your illness of addiction to a form of physical illness, like diabetes for example.  Kids may have a better comprehension of the idea that you are sick and trying to get well.  This may make more sense to them because of the times that you come off as exhausted and irritable, or even when you have to get out of the house to attend meetings.  When making the comparison, try not to overwhelm them or instill any fear.

    There are conversations that people may never want to endure, and having to talk to your children about your addiction may be one of them.  It is of course important for you to first talk with your sponsor, sober supports, counselors, spouse, and family before discussing this with your children. Just remember to remain calm, be honest, and relax.  This process is a journey, and each day relationships will get rebuilt and worked on for the better.