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    Understanding 12 Stepwork: 4th Step Inventory Spreadsheet

    It’s safe to assume nobody wants to be dredging up the past, but recovering from addiction requires you as an alcoholic and/or addict to take a serious look at your past when embarking on your journey in sobriety. When working on the 4th step inventory in particular, it can be overbearing when you are overridden with memories you haven’t recalled for some time. Mentally revisiting these occasions can be enervating, so it’s crucial to remember that it’s all part of the process. Looking back at your life isn’t supposed to be torturous but rather get you in a better…

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    Living with Bipolar In Recovery

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    How To Quit Smoking

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    How To Have A Healthy Relationship In Recovery

    Working on the recovery process as an alcoholic and/or addict means not only discovering how to live without abusing substances but also understanding what having healthy relationships in recovery with friends, family, and others looks like. Healthy Relationships in Recovery Active addiction made life skewed. Healthy relationships were foreign, but now that you’re in recovery you have the opportunity to work on building them. Whether it’s a significant other, friend, or family member you want to reconnect with, it can be beneficial to have an accurate understanding of the meaning of a healthy relationship so you can make the…

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    Why Is Working With Others So Important In Recovery?

    Working with others is a vital aspect for maintaining recovery for alcohol and/or drug addiction. Helping to pass the message along keeps you from reverting back to old patterns and behaviors yourself because you end up instead living in the solution. Have you ever noticed how you could be in a complete slump but then come out of it when providing a message of hope for a newcomer? It may seem like there’s no way out one minute, but then all of a sudden when you see the look on a newcomers face, you are restored to this brand…

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    How To Overcome Fear And Anxiety

    Even with the obsession of alcohol and drugs removed, you as a recovering alcoholic and/or addict may still be plagued by the overwhelming distress of anxiety and fear. This can cause you to feel uncomfortable in your own skin from even as early as the moment you first wake up. Though you may have been suggested to simply stop being anxious, the task isn’t as simple as it may seem. However, more freedom can always be found during your walk through the process of recovery as more is revealed during your journey. Overcoming Anxiety When you find victory over…

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    Top 10 Recovery Related Books You Must Read

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    Warning Signs You’re Slacking In Your Recovery

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    The Definition Of A Promise

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    How to Act As If During the Process of Recovery from Addiction

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    Let Go Of The Past

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    Understanding 12 Stepwork: 4th Step Inventory Spreadsheet

    It’s safe to assume nobody wants to be dredging up the past, but recovering from addiction requires you as an alcoholic and/or addict to take a serious look at your past when embarking on your journey in sobriety. When working on the 4th step inventory in particular, it can be overbearing when you are overridden with memories you haven’t recalled for some time. Mentally revisiting these occasions can be enervating, so it’s crucial to remember that it’s all part of the process. Looking back at your life isn’t supposed to be torturous but rather get you in a better…

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    Living with Bipolar In Recovery

    Living with bipolar disorder can mean constantly thriving in fight or flight mode, as the individuals go back and forth on the metaphorical merry-go-round, fluctuating between a variety of extreme exhilarating highs and debilitating lows. It can stifle the sufferer so severely that they stumble in seeing any sensibility to sustain a standard set way of living. Understanding that bipolar disorder is entirely different than feeling negative is an essential component to breaking the stigma behind mental illness that needs to be carried if the disease is to be comprehended in its entirety. A fluctuation of moods can both…

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    How To Quit Smoking

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    How To Have A Healthy Relationship In Recovery

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    Why Is Working With Others So Important In Recovery?

    Working with others is a vital aspect for maintaining recovery for alcohol and/or drug addiction. Helping to pass the message along keeps you from reverting back to old patterns and behaviors yourself because you end up instead living in the solution. Have you ever noticed how you could be in a complete slump but then come out of it when providing a message of hope for a newcomer? It may seem like there’s no way out one minute, but then all of a sudden when you see the look on a newcomers face, you are restored to this brand…

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    How To Overcome Fear And Anxiety

    Even with the obsession of alcohol and drugs removed, you as a recovering alcoholic and/or addict may still be plagued by the overwhelming distress of anxiety and fear. This can cause you to feel uncomfortable in your own skin from even as early as the moment you first wake up. Though you may have been suggested to simply stop being anxious, the task isn’t as simple as it may seem. However, more freedom can always be found during your walk through the process of recovery as more is revealed during your journey. Overcoming Anxiety When you find victory over…

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    Top 10 Recovery Related Books You Must Read

    Most individuals in recovery begin with basic works of literature to help guide them along during the recovery process. These are the top 10 works of literature for addicts or alcoholics who are looking to create a better life for themselves. Alcoholics Anonymous – Big Book There’s no greater works of literature for alcoholics to follow than the original Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book itself, which kicked off the recovery program in 1939 with founders Bill Wilson and Dr. Bob. When in doubt, the words of wisdom from The Big Book could carry a sick and suffering alcoholic through a…

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    Warning Signs You’re Slacking In Your Recovery

    Are you worried you may be slacking with your addiction recovery? These warning signs can be a surefire way to tell! Relapse Warning Signs Keeping up with your addiction recovery is important, but after you’ve been sober for a while, it can get tricky. Life has gotten better and you’ve already put the substances down. Now that you aren’t active in your addiction and have racked up a good amount of sober time, it’s likely that your life has become far more manageable than it ever has been before. This makes it all the more likely for you to justify…

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    The Definition Of A Promise

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    How to Act As If During the Process of Recovery from Addiction

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  • Coping with ‘PAWS’

    Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome (P.A.W.S.) and the Recovery Process

    The two stages of withdrawal symptoms are simply acute and post-acute. The acute withdrawal stage involves the physical symptoms that usually only last a few weeks.

    Post-acute withdrawal syndrome (P.A.W.S.) involves less physical symptoms and a more psychological and emotional manifestation of withdrawal. Long term drug or alcohol abuse damages the nervous system and produces psychological stress. The chemicals in your brain fluctuate as it improves causing post-acute withdrawal symptoms. These symptoms are signs that your brain functioning is moderately returning to normal.

    P.A.W.S. is simply defined as, “a set of persistent impairments that occur after withdrawal from alcohol, opiates, benzodiazepines and other substances.”

    Post-acute withdrawal syndrome symptoms include:

    Depression

    Mood swings

    Overwhelming feelings of guilt

    Pessimistic thinking

    Lack in ability to concentrate or focus

    Increased sensitivity to stress

    Blocking or numbness of memories and feelings

    Sleep disturbances

    Social anxiety and trouble with interpersonal skills

    Lack of motivation or initiative

    Intense cravings

    Memory loss

    Putting on a façade (looking good on the outside but feeling awful inside)

    Feeling lethargic or little enthusiasm in daily activities

    Difficulty multitasking and completing simple tasks

    Unrealistic expectations of self and others

    Surviving Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome

    P.A.W.S. can last from six to 24 months after the last use. It may sometimes feel like you’re taking two steps forward and then five back. Awareness, along with a healthy support group of fellow recovering addicts who understand what you’re going through is suggested to get through these difficult periods.

    Don’t be so hard on yourself. Give yourself a break. Realize that you are not alone and that no one recovers overnight.

    Stimulate your mind with reading or cognitive exercises.

    Try to keep a healthy balance in your life. Be careful not to do anything too extreme. Only work 40 hours a week. Never obsess over working out or physical fitness.

    Always keep your recovery first. Try not to sweat the small stuff, instead focus on what you need to do for your recovery. Never put anything before your recovery. After all, anything you put ahead of your recovery you will lose.

    Remember, P.A.W.S. is not permanent. Feeling this way is only temporary. Your brain will recover. It just takes time. Be patient and continue to do the right thing. Recovery is possible.

    For more information: Dealing with PAWS

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  • Overcoming Social Anxiety

    Overcoming Social Anxiety in Recovery

    Most drug addicts and alcoholics say they grew up feeling like they didn’t “fit in” before they even picked up a drink or a drug. They felt less than, or just uncomfortable and out of place. Using drugs and alcohol filled that hole in the soul and made them feel like they were part of something at last.

    This is an illusion. Drugs and alcohol actually heighten fear and anxiety. In some cases, drug abuse and alcoholism can make a person feel nervous or anxious most of the time.

    The progression of the disease leads many addicts to a world of isolation. An intense fear of people and social settings is developed. Drug addicts generally come into recovery with extremely low self-esteem driven by a hundred forms of fear.

    Social Phobias: Walk Through the Fear

    Overcoming fear of social situations is possible. Talk to other recovering addicts and alcoholics who understand what you’re going through. Develop a support network of friends who you feel you can be yourself around without being judged. Surround yourself with people who have what you want.

    Go to “recovery friendly” places, like coffeehouses, meetings, and other sober social spots. Check on the bulletin board at your local meetings and clubhouses for upcoming social events and activities. Sign up for a sober sports team, or volunteer at your home group to do service work.

    Get a phone list at the meeting and dial the numbers. Set up coffee dates or ask for a ride to the next meeting. 12 step programs are about giving back, so healthy people in recovery have no problem reaching out their hand to the new person who is struggling.

    Most 12 step meetings offer commitments specifically designed for newcomers, like making coffee or greeting people at the entrance of the meeting. These are good examples of service work that will help you give back, but also put you in a position to meet others.

    Tips for overcoming fear of social situations:

    Limit caffeine intake. Caffeine is a stimulant so drinking too much of it causes nervousness and anxiety. Drink caffeine free tea or juice instead.

    Get enough sleep. Sleep deprivation can create anxiety. Being well rested can help keep you calm in social settings.

    Replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Negative self-talk influences the way you see yourself and the way you think others see you. Positive affirmations create positive energy and reduce stress in social settings.

    Get out of yourself and help others. The best way to build self-esteem and self-confidence is by helping others. You will begin to feel good about yourself and whatever fear you’re experiencing won’t seem as significant.

    Getting comfortable in your own skin does not happen overnight. Recovery is a process. Sometimes you have to go through awkward and uncomfortable situations to grow. The idea is that you remain willing to walk through these fears and difficult times.

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  • Codependency

    Defining Codependency

    Codependency is an excessive psychological or emotional dependence on a person. Typically a codependent person attaches themselves to those suffering from an illness, whether it is emotional, mental, or physical.

    Many times codependency, or codependent, is used to describe someone who is dealing with a person who suffers from drug addiction and/or alcoholism.

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    Where can I get help for Codependency? CoDA: Co-Dependents Anonymous

    There is hope and recovery for codependency, but you have to first admit there is a problem before you can fix it. Find Codependents Anonymous Meeting now: CoDA Meeting Locator.

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  • Balanced Living

    The Importance of Health and Nutrition

    Health and nutrition are critical in the recovery process and can increase your chance for long term sobriety. The connection between the mind, body and spirit plays a critical role in reinventing yourself.

    Alcoholism and drug addiction deprive the body of the essential vitamins and nourishment that your body needs to function properly. Long periods of restricting and neglecting your diet causes an imbalance and can lead to serious gastrointestinal problems such as constipation, diarrhea, an inability to properly digest foods, as well as a suppressed appetite.

    Learning how to properly nourish the body is an important and beneficial tool for your personal recovery. Following a healthy diet can reduce cravings and decrease mood swings. Eating properly teaches a recovering addict how to care for and respect their body.

    What does a healthy diet consist of?

    Balanced meals at regular times daily are extremely important for a person new in recovery. Your diet should consist of foods with dietary fiber, complex carbohydrates, and protein.

    Recovering individuals have a difficult time focusing, or concentrating on a particular thought or idea. This is because drug use and alcoholism depletes dopamine levels in the brain. Eating foods high in protein can improve concentration and memory capacity.

    Foods high in tyrosine, an amino acid used in synthesizing protein, are crucial for mental preparation. Foods such as meats, poultry, seafood, and tofu are high in tyrosine. These foods promote alertness and mental activity.

    Healthy Nutrition Tips:

    Caffeine and sugar can intensify mood swings, so reduce or eliminate both early in recovery

    Consume different types of vegetables

    Enjoy plenty of fruit

    Eat wholegrain or sourdough breads

    Use breakfast cereals that contain bran, oats and barley

    Eat less starch, especially potatoes

    Take a multi-vitamin, recovering addicts lack many essential vitamins (find a supplement that includes: vitamins A and C, B-complex and zinc)

    Establishing and maintaining a balanced diet, along with regular exercise and relaxation aid in restoring an addict to health.

    Importance of Exercise in Recovery

    Exercise detoxifies, as well as strengthens the body and mind. When your heart rate is elevated your body release endorphins, which can reduce stress.

    Drug abuse involves negative thinking and a distorted perception of reality, so changing these thoughts into healthy ones involves positive action. Physical activity focuses your energy and quiets urges to use drugs and alcohol.

    When we are physically active we have more energy throughout the day, and our thoughts are more positive and optimistic. We start feeling better about ourselves, which in turn creates positive thinking and an improved perception of ourselves.

    The Mind and Body: A Balancing Act

    The disease of addiction involves an obsession of the mind, so it is important to find a healthy balance in fixing both the mind and the body. Individuals who are early in recovery should be careful not to focus too much on fixing the outside, as it is easy for a drug addict to transfer addictions.

    Look at your recovery as a pie chart. Consider the mind, body and soul as equal pieces of the pie. Anytime one piece is too big or too small, it’s time to do something different. Finding this balance will enhance your recovery and increase your overall well-being.

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  • Understanding 12 Stepwork: 4th Step Inventory Spreadsheet

    It’s safe to assume nobody wants to be dredging up the past, but recovering from addiction requires you as an alcoholic and/or addict to take a serious look at your past when embarking on your journey in sobriety. When working on the 4 th step inventory in particular, it can be overbearing when you are overridden with memories you haven’t recalled for some time. Mentally revisiting these occasions can be enervating, so it’s crucial to remember that it’s all part of the process. Looking back at your life isn’t supposed to be torturous but rather get you in a better frame of mind so that you can live at peace with yourself in a restored sanity.

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    About The 4 th Step Inventory

    Each person’s walk during the recovery process is their own because everybody reacts differently. It may take you quicker or longer than another alcoholic and/or addict when it comes to reaching and completing the 4 th step inventory. However, it shouldn’t matter; you shouldn’t be comparing! When an individual hits their 4 th step inventory, a thorough searching and fearless moral inventory is conducted. The 4 th step involves a great deal of work where you end up taking a good, hard, honest look at your resentments in a new light, the causes and the conditions that explain why you have them, and above all else, the truth behind the role you played in them. Fears and relationships are also addressed in your inventory. Decision making is taken a look at while your past is viewed right before your eyes. Do your best not to live in what you cannot change.

    The Power Of Resentments

    You may not have realized it when you were actively picking up the bottle and/or headed to grab the drugs, but living with resentments brought you right to your substance. Being able to see the people you resent as “sick” and seeing the part you play can help you come out of it. The frustrating part for you may be when you have to put the pen on paper, becoming willing to do the work, and experiencing whatever feelings may arise as a result. Now that your substances are no longer numbing you, feelings are bound to come and you are going to experience them. Having feelings is nothing to be ashamed of. It is completely normal to have feelings because it’s part of the human experience to display and process emotions.

    This Too Shall Pass

    You may conjure up memories you haven’t considered in a while since the 4 th step inventory work is known for dredging up the past and it may be painful but rest assured pain is temporary. Keep in mind, “This too shall pass.” Recovery is a process and it may seem like it’s tough to deal with now that you don’t have the aid of alcohol and/or drugs to lean on for support. However, now you have healthier coping mechanisms in recovery by working your program and reaching out to actual people who have experience with the same disease as you for support. This ultimately can help to develop an understanding of how you should be living, which is trusting that better things are well on their way as long as you continue to follow through doing the next right thing.

    Are you still feeling stuck in the midst of active addiction to alcohol and/or drugs? Contact The Watershed and begin the process of your recovery today. Call now at 877-975-4837.

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    Building Healthy Relationships In Recovery

    There are 5 types of relationships that you will be working on building in recovery and they look a little something like this: Higher Power, you, family, friends, and partner. This may seem like a daunting task since almost all of your relationships have become toxic and sick during addiction, but when you take some simple steps towards each of these relationships, you will be amazed at how much love you have to give, and receive.

    Healthy Relationships

    The great news about this journey into building healthy relationships is that when you work the 12-steps in your program, you will have the opportunity to start with your Higher Power, which ultimately is what helps you build all of your relationships.

    Higher Power

    When you work on this relationship, you are able to have the ability to have successful relationships in general. Getting to know your Higher Power and putting them first in your life doesn’t mean that you can’t have a relationship with yourself or others, in fact, it’s the complete opposite. It is because of this bond that you will even have healthy interactions with others and that is why it is so important.

    You

    You have ignored yourself for a very long time and it’s time you learned how to have a healthy interaction with yourself. You deserve love and care, but you can’t expect to get it from anyone else if you are not giving it to yourself first. If you treat yourself with respect and love while also being humble, then others will, too. If they don’t, then you will have boundaries that protect you because of the relationship you are building with your Higher Power and yourself.

    Family

    The members of your family that you want in your life, but may have been strained from addiction, will need some repairing as well. The healthier you get and the longer you stay in recovery, the more opportunity you will have at reconnecting with those you love. This may or may not be an easy task depending on how badly the bridge has been burned, but all you have to be about is the action and if the relationship is meant to be mended, it will be, as long as you don’t try to rush and control the process. This is most definitely where your Higher Power and the willingness to turn over your fears and expectations to them comes into play.

    Friends

    Whether you are trying reconnect with old friends or new ones, you are what you will attract. Working your relationship with your Higher Power and yourself will help you build, or re-build, healthy relationships with friends. Whoever you surround yourself with could help build you up or break you down, so make sure that you are connecting with people on the same spiritual journey as you are on.

    Partner

    Many of you may have never had a healthy relationship with a boyfriend or girlfriend, and so skipping through all the other relationships to get this one fast, will defeat the purpose of inviting someone special and healthy into your life. Who you are right now, will not be the same person years to come. It takes time to heal and recover from addiction, why rush the process by inviting someone into your life that may be destructive? You will know when you are ready to have a healthy relationship, so be patient.

    No matter how little or long you have in recovery, the journey into building relationships takes time and effort, so give time its place. Everything comes exactly when it is supposed to come.

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    Exercise In Recovery

    Just Do It!

    You’ve been talking about it for months. Whenever you drive by the gym you’ve belonged to since 2001, you get the euphoric recall of how good it felt after an intense workout and how good you looked when you were doing it regularly, and you wonder why you haven’t been there since 2003! You even went out and bought yourself a new pair of tennis shoes and some matching gym shorts, but still have yet to break a sweat!

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    Why are we so unmotivated to do something that we know is good for us? What can we do to get motivated?

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